Planning a first date is an important event for many women.
Canceling that date comes with inherent disappointment.
If you find yourself in the unfortunate situation where a girl flakes on the date without giving you advance notice or contacting you, ignore her and give it at least a week for her to contact you again.
The reality of dating is that people come and go, and, sometimes better offers do come along, or, you change your mind, or, well, you just aren’t interested anymore.
Excuses are our way of letting them off easy, or so we think.
Not getting reactive when a girl rejects you occurs when you have put in a significant amount of repetitions, and when you have other options in your dating life.
But until you reach that point, if you are in this situation and feel upset, there isn’t really a way to talk yourself out of not feeling upset.